How I Work

This is not performance coaching. It’s not therapy. And it’s definitely not about “fixing” you.

This is relational coaching for men and couples who are ready to stop the “game,” start showing up, and live in deeper alignment with who they truly are.

A Different Kind of Coaching

My work is rooted in presence, compassion, and clarity. It’s direct, intuitive, somatic, and respectfully challenging.

I help you slow down and listen to what your body, your heart, and your higher self have been trying to tell you for years — under the noise of success, pressure, performance, and cultural programming.

Whether you are coming individually or as a couple, the process is the same: slow down, get real, and rewire from the inside out.

What You Can Expect

  • A safe, non-judgmental space where nothing is off-limits

  • Honest reflections that help you see what’s really holding you back

  • Practices and tools that reconnect you to your emotions, values, and inner leadership

  • A collaborative relationship with me where you set the pace and together we create a custom plan that works for you

  • An emphasis on rapport building, equality, recognition, and celebration

Relational, Somatic, Transformational

While much of our work happens through conversation, we go deeper than talk.

We use tools like somatic tracking, simple movement, and active imagination to reach the places logic alone can't. You don’t need to become someone different — you just need to become more fully yourself.

For couples, the goal isn’t to change who you are to fit each other’s expectations — it’s to learn how to meet each other in a new way.

This Work is For You If:

  • You’re successful on paper, but something might be missing

  • You want more connection and intimacy, but don’t know how to create it

  • You’ve been told you’re emotionally unavailable or not fully present

  • You’re in a relationship and want to break the cycle of disconnection, blame, frustration, or emotional distance

  • You’re ready to take more ownership and open up to a new way of relating

  • You’re willing to show up honestly and do the work

Not a Good Fit If:

  • You want someone to do the work for you

  • You’re looking for a quick fix or a magic script to get more sex

  • You’re not open to emotional exploration or self-responsibility

  • You’re only here because someone else made you come (and you’re not on board)

Let’s Be Real

This work isn’t easy. But it’s powerful.

You’ll learn to lead from love — not ego. To express yourself clearly — not reactively. To be the kind of man or couple who creates trust, connection, and intimacy that actually lasts.

If that sounds like the path you want to walk…

Book your free intro meeting and let’s talk.